So, why are we here exactly?

Well, let us answer that question for you. We are Emily and Darcy and, frankly, we are a bit peeved. The concept of a young man and young woman (let's say about college-aged) actually participating in the ancient custom of dating or courtship has seemed to have all but diminished completely in this post-modern age. Think about it.... what actually are the events that lead to a relationship? Do people pick a partner, casually get to know them, and take each other out on actual, real-life, legitimate "dates"? Not so much. In the real world of early-adulthood, people who travel in the same circles of friends/activities/interests/classes randomly stumble into each other sideways one drunken evening and end up fooling around in some sense of the phrase. Then, statistically speaking (if it was not an act of incredibly unethical means) it will happen again. The cat's out of the bag at that point and then one will find themselves on a slippery-slope teetering on the brink between friendship and dating. This blog is to serve as the complete manual on pseudo-dating from two girls who know way too much about what it means to be between the in between when it comes to men.